Family travel 5: Make trip planning a family affair

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By Lynn O’Rourke Hayes, FamilyTravel.com

Do you strive to raise citizens of the world? As you and your children navigate the planet together, sharing your knowledge while teaching them to make their own way will create confident and compassionate travelers for the future. Here are a five tips for empowering the next generation of explorers.

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Preparation breeds confidence

Involve your kids in the travel planning and decision-making process from the earliest age possible. Share maps, books, websites, pictures, videos and documentaries. Stoke their curiosity by discussing the nearby and faraway places you hope to visit now or in the future. When you, friends or family travel for business or pleasure, make a point to show your children the destinations on a map and discuss geographic and cultural points of interest that will help build their growing understanding of the world. Encourage the travelers to share their stories.

Knowledge is power

When planning your own journey, chart a road trip using your favorite mapping technology and share the information with the kids. If they are old enough, encourage them to create a suggested routing and to offer options for stops along the way. If you will be flying, show the kids how to navigate the booking process and then check in for a flight online. Consider making each child responsible for their own boarding pass. (For younger children perhaps printing an extra or downloading to your phone as backup is a wise decision.) Provide each child with an itinerary and discuss the details before you depart. Talk about preparing for and moving through airport security.

Bestow responsibility

Discuss your travel details and encourage your children to create a packing list early. Talk about the importance of having the right gear for an adventure trip or the proper attire for a city visit. Then, encourage them to pack their own belongings. As soon as possible, give them responsibility for making sure their bag makes it from home to the car, train or plane. Discuss the importance of having proper identification inside and outside of their bags and retaining baggage tags once a bag is checked to your destination. Encourage them to bring their own items of interest, snacks and a water bottle for the trip.

Communication is key

Before leaving home, make sure the whole family understands how you will navigate to your destination. Visiting a city? Make sure your crew has the hotel address and phone number at hand. If you will be traveling to or through a crowded venue like an airport, a theme park or shopping mall, be sure to have a clearly defined plan should someone lose their way. Use the buddy system or rooms designated for families when visiting public restrooms.

Consider bestowing each member of the family with a cell phone and instructions for use. Should challenges occur, share your problem-solving skills and solutions with the children. Without propagating fear, encourage your children to be aware of their surroundings at all times.

Support those who make your travel happen

Travel and tourism, and the individuals who keep the industry humming, work hard to make your adventure enjoyable. Showing kindness and respect along the way is meaningful. Research your destination before departure and discuss how the places you will visit might be different or similar to your own home. Seek out tour operators and lodging options that share your travel sensibilities.

Once you arrive, burrow into the culture and make a point to learn about how and where the locals live, work and play. Visit local farmers markets.

Skip the chains when possible and seek out locally owned eateries, shops and lodging. If the language is not your own, learn at least a few key phrases and practice them before and during the visit.

In the end, education and experience breed understanding, acceptance and confidence.

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Trump kept his promise to order a ban on transgender female athletes. Court fights have arrived

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By WILL GRAVES, AP National Writer

Donald Trump, the candidate, pledged to get “transgender insanity the hell out of our schools” and “keep men out of women’s sports.”

Donald Trump, the president, wasted little time delivering on his promise to address a topic that seemed to resonate across party lines. Trump issued an executive order on the day his second term began that called for “restoring biological truth to the federal government” and signed another on Wednesday titled “ Keeping Men Out of Women’s Sports.

The federal government now has wide latitude across multiple agencies to penalize federally funded entities that “deprive women and girls of fair athletic opportunities.”

“The war on women’s sports is over,” Trump declared.

Probably not. Legal challenges like the ones against other executive orders aimed at transgender people are likely and on Wednesday, the Trump administration sued Maine for not complying with the government’s push to ban transgender athletes in girls and women’s sports.

What is in the executive order?

The biggest takeaway is that the Trump administration has empowered the federal government to take aggressive steps to go after entities — be they a school or an athletic association and now a state — that do not comply. Federal funding, and potentially grants to educational programs, could be pulled.

The threshold for noncompliance: Any entity that denies “female students an equal opportunity to participate in sports and athletic events by requiring them, in the women’s category, to compete with or against or to appear unclothed before males.”

The Education Department announced less than 24 hours after the order’s signing that it was investigating San Jose State University, the University of Pennsylvania and the Massachusetts Interscholastic Athletic Association, all of which have had Title IX violations reported against them for allowing transgender athletes to compete. It also investigated Maine and last week referred the case to the Justice Department.

Determining “sex” vs. “gender” and how will that affect Title IX?

Every administration has the authority to issue its own interpretations of the landmark legislation best known for its role in ensuring gender equity in athletics and preventing sexual harassment on campuses.

Given the push-pull of how recent presidencies view Title IX, it has created a whiplash effect.

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Joe Biden signed an executive order on his first day in office that interpreted sex as “gender identity” under Title IX, a move that protected transgender athletes from being discriminated against if they wanted to participate in a sport that aligned with their gender identity, not their sex assigned at birth.

Yet it took more than three years for Title IX regulations saying that to be finalized. And when they were, they lacked specifics sports and were put on hold by courts.

Trump’s order explicitly states that sex means the “immutable biological classification as either male or female.” ‘Sex’ is not a synonym for and does not include the concept of “gender identity.” The order adds that “sexes are not changeable and are grounded in fundamental and incontrovertible reality.”

The decision marks a significant shift in the way Title IX is viewed and more explicitly, how it will be enforced.

How many transgender athletes will be affected?

That number is hard to pin down.

The NCAA, for example, does not track data on transgender athletes among the 544,000 currently competing on 19,000 teams at various levels across the country, though NCAA President Charlie Baker testified in Congress in December that he was aware of fewer than 10 active NCAA athletes who identified as transgender.

A 2019 survey of high school students by the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network (GLSEN) noted just 5% of respondents said they participated in a sport that aligned with their gender identity. A 2022 report by the Williams Institute estimated about 300,000 high school-age students (ages 13-17) identified as transgender. How many of those young people participate in sports is unknown, but it is likely a tiny fraction.

Does the order have actual teeth?

The reach of Title IX extends far beyond the participation of transgender athletes. Noncompliance is believed to be widespread.

The Women’s Sports Foundation noted in a 2022 report that there were still “gross gender inequities” across all college divisions and that there was “cause for concern about widespread Title IX noncompliance in high school and college and university athletic programs” even before the COVID-19 pandemic made women’s sports even more vulnerable.

Yet to date no school at any level has had its federal funding rescinded for not meeting Title IX standards that require institutions to provide women with equal access and treatment, said Cheryl Cooky, a professor at Purdue University who studies the intersection of gender, sports, media and culture. She wondered where all this support for women’s sports in general — and not on this issue specifically — has been for the last five decades.

“All of these other inequalities have existed and now you’re in a position of power to address those opportunities and this is what you’re addressing?” Cooky said earlier this year. “The fact that this is the issue that the administration is concerned about speaks volumes in terms of how we value women in this society and how we value women’s sports in this society.”

Yet given Trump’s unpredictable approach to governing, precedent and history might not apply.

How will this work at the state level?

About half the states have already enacted legislation that effectively bars transgender athletes from competing in the category that aligns with their gender identity. The AP reported in 2021 that in many cases, states introducing a ban on transgender athletes could not cite instances where their participation was an issue.

Some states are already planning to challenge the Trump order in court. Connecticut Attorney General William Tong called the order “mean spirited and unlawful” and called for those opposed to the order to “stand together and fight back.”

What also remains unclear is whether a federal agency can go after specific organizations — like state high school sports associations — that do not receive money directly from the federal government.

How will this affect college sports?

The NCAA Board of Governors moved quickly, amending its transgender participation policy to limit competition in women’s sports to athletes assigned female at birth. The NCAA has more than 500,000 athletes competing for some 1,100 schools.

“We strongly believe that clear, consistent, and uniform eligibility standards would best serve today’s student-athletes instead of a patchwork of conflicting state laws and court decisions,” Baker said then. “To that end, President Trump’s order provides a clear, national standard.”

The National Association of Intercollegiate Athletics, the governing body for more than 200 small schools across the country, voted unanimously in 2023 to effectively ban transgender athletes from competing in women’s sports.

What about the Olympics?

On a move most saw coming once Trump won a second term, his administration still managed to sneak in a curveball.

The order calls for the office of the secretary of state to use “all appropriate and available measures” in hopes of having the International Olympic Committee come up with a uniform transgender policy. The organization has passed the buck for years, deferring to the international federations for each sport.

Kirsty Coventry, the sports minister of Zimbabwe, has replaced Thomas Bach as IOC president. A two-time Olympic champion swimmer, she told the BBC before her election that it is the IOC’s duty to ensure equal opportunity and fairness.

“I don’t believe we can do that based off of the medical and science research that I’ve seen if we add or allow for transgender women to compete in the female category right now,” she said then. “It is very clear that transgender women are more able in the female category, and can take away opportunities that should be equal for women.”

AP Sports Writer Graham Dunbar and Associated Press writer Geoff Mulvihill contributed to this report.

‘Hacks’ review: In Season 4, even dream jobs can be a (very funny) nightmare

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Push-pull. Love-hate. That tension is the backbone of “Hacks,” which has only grown more potent over time as the central duo — a veteran standup in the mold of Joan Rivers and the much younger writer who has helped reinvigorate her career — self-sabotage their way to success. In Season 4 of the Max comedy, Deborah Vance and Ava Daniels have manipulated their way into their respective dream jobs as host and head writer of a late-night talk show on network TV. Every nasty word between them over the years, along with every heartfelt exchange, has led to this moment. And they can’t enjoy any of it because they’re at each other’s throats once again.

Starring Jean Smart and Hannah Einbinder, rarely has a pairing been this combustibly funny, but also able to get you in the gut each time they find common ground amid the smoking wreckage of their lives. But until they make their way back to one another, their underappreciated manager Jimmy proposes he act as intermediary, “even though I said I’d never do that again after my parents’ divorce because it almost destroyed me” — he gives a wonderfully hollow laugh at the memory — “but I’m going to do it for you.”

Jimmy is played by Paul W. Downs, who is also one of the show’s creators, along with Lucia Aniello and Jen Statsky. This is their strongest season yet. It’s pointedly a Hollywood satire, as opposed to the broader showbiz satire it’s been up until now. Leaving its Las Vegas setting for Los Angeles, it has far more to say about the industry than other recent attempts, and it is a perceptive exploration of Hollywood as a place where colleagues who hate one another in private give an entirely different impression when in public.

I wish there was more poking and jabbing specifically aimed at the smiling phoniness inherent to the talk show format (“The Larry Sanders Show” was really the last to do it with gusto) but the season is sharply observed about newer headaches, including the perils of platforming an unvetted online star (played by an exuberantly go-for-broke Julianne Nicholson), or the current realities of the job, which include a TV network’s social media manager forever coaxing Deborah into doing dumb gags for sponsored posts.

Meanwhile, Jimmy has launched his own company with his assistant-turned-partner (the wonderfully over-the-top Megan Stalter) and their first big move is to hire a straight-talking receptionist (Robby Hoffman) who may be a Hollywood novice, but she has a way of cutting through the crap that passes for normal. “What I’ve learned about this business is everybody is soft,” she says in her matter-of-fact New York accent. “Apparently everybody takes off mid-October, comes back end of January, and you want to know why the entire industry is in the toilet? Nobody wants to work!” She brings an amusingly unexpected energy to their team, and then is more or less forgotten for the rest of the season. That’s a missed opportunity because Hoffman is very funny.

From left: Megan Stalter and Paul W. Downs in Season 4 of “Hacks.” (Max)

Helen Hunt returns as the network programming head and she gets one of the better jokes of the season as she breezes in and apologizes for being late: “I was trying to bond with my kid,” adding in a half-whisper: “Doctor’s orders.”

But the show’s core is the prickly neediness that fuels Deborah and Ava’s every interaction. Betrayal is their lingua franca. It drives their ambitions but also their personal interactions with anyone in their orbit. Better to lash out first, or at least build up a protective armor. They only let their guard down with one another. Trust will be carefully built, and then inevitably shattered. They’ll get over it. They always do. And then they’ll stumble once again. Around and around they go, trapped in this dysfunctional cycle. But despite the 40-year age difference, this remains the most meaningful relationship either has ever had.

Season 4 reaches its climax when they are faced with a cascading series of ethical dilemmas. A career in Hollywood probably isn’t viable if you stand on principle. That’s the conventional wisdom, anyway. I like that “Hacks” wants to challenge some of those assumptions, even as it mocks them. Taking a stand costs money and opportunities. It can also just make your life difficult going forward. Integrity is expensive.

But having no integrity at all is expensive, as well. And it’s often everyone else who pays the price.

“Hacks” Season 4 — 3.5 stars (out of 4)

Where to watch: Max

Nina Metz is a Tribune critic.

OpenAI picks labor icon Dolores Huerta and other philanthropy advisers as it moves toward for-profit

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By MATT O’BRIEN

OpenAI has named labor leader Dolores Huerta and three others to a temporary advisory board that will help guide the artificial intelligence company’s philanthropy as it attempts to shift itself into a for-profit business.

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Huerta, who turned 95 last week, formed the first farmworkers union with Cesar Chavez in the early 1960s and will now have a say on the direction of philanthropic initiatives that OpenAI says will consider “both the promise and risks of AI.”

The group will have just 90 days to make their suggestions.

“She recognizes the significance of AI in today’s world and anybody who’s been paying attention for the last 50 years knows she will be a force in this conversation,” said Daniel Zingale, the convener of OpenAI’s new nonprofit commission and a former adviser to three California governors.

Huerta’s advice won’t be binding but the presence of a social activist icon could be influential as OpenAI CEO Sam Altman attempts a costly restructuring of the San Francisco company’s corporate governance, which requires the approval of California’s attorney general and others.

Another coalition of labor leaders and nonprofits recently petitioned state Attorney General Rob Bonta, a Democrat, to investigate OpenAI, halt the proposed conversion and “protect billions of dollars that are under threat as profit-driven hunger for power yields conflicts of interest.”

OpenAI, the maker of ChatGPT, started out in 2015 as a nonprofit research laboratory dedicated to safely building better-than-human AI that benefits humanity.

It later formed a for-profit arm and shifted most of its staff there, but is still controlled by a nonprofit board of directors. It is now trying to convert itself more fully into a for-profit corporation but faces a number of hurdles, including getting the approval of California and Delaware attorneys general, potentially buying out the nonprofit’s pricy assets and fighting a lawsuit from co-founder and early investor Elon Musk.

Backed by Japanese tech giant SoftBank, OpenAI last month said it’s working to raise $40 billion in funding, putting its value at $300 billion.

Huerta will be joined on the new advisory commission by former Spanish-language media executive Monica Lozano; Robert Ross, the recently retired president of The California Endowment; and Jack Oliver, an attorney and longtime Republican campaign fundraiser. Zingale, the group’s convener, is a former aide to California governors including Democrat Gavin Newsom and Republican Arnold Schwarzenegger.

“We’re interested in how you put the power of AI in the hands of everyday people and the community organizations that serve them,” Zingale said in an interview Wednesday. “Because, if AI is going to bring a renaissance, or a dark age, these are the people you want to tip the scale in favor of humanity.”

The Associated Press and OpenAI have a licensing and technology agreement that allows OpenAI access to part of AP’s text archives.