Readers and writers: Mary Lucia’s memoir leads list of thought-provoking nonfiction

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Thought-provoking reading today. A woman with a high-profile job has her life turned upside-down by a stalker and two widows tell of how their husbands died and their ways through grief.

“What Doesn’t Kill Me Makes Me Weirder and Harder to Relate To”: by Mary Lucia (University of Minnesota Press, Nov. 25, $22.95)

Going out to a show was no longer an option. Not knowing who the stalker was or what he looked like — he could be anywhere. And if a mentally unstable person warns you time and again that he’s watching you and knows where you are always, you better believe it. — from “What Doesn’t Kill Makes Me Weirder and Harder to Relate To.”

Mary Lucia (courtesy photo)

Mary Lucia was a popular afternoon drive-time DJ on Minnesota Public Radio’s music station The Current. She prided herself on connecting with listeners by sharing bits of her private life such as her love of animals, and she got great comments. Until 2014, when a package of 10 pounds of raw meat was left at the station with her name on it.  So began Lucia’s terrifying years of escalating harassment, with her stalker leaving cards and other things on her doorstep and sending messages about watching her everywhere and threatening her dogs. He was so brazen that he lurked around her house.

(Courtesy of the University of Minnesota Press)

While Lucia became more frightened, she also had to do her job interviewing rock stars, creating playlists and making public appearances. She became increasingly isolated as her family and even some close friends had a “get over it” attitude or suspected she was delusional or hysterical. And she got no help from police when she called 911. She was incredulous when one officer scolded her for having an illegal lightbulb on her porch, as if that mattered, and wanted to know if she was the stalker’s “type.”

“Paranoid or not, it wasn’t the first time there was some snide inference made based on my appearance,” she writes. “I wasn’t worthy to be stalked. I might have looked a little too punky for them to believe I could be the subject of this unwanted attention. Plus, I was in my early forties, for crying out loud. Expired goods.”

Lucia credits women with taking her seriously, including a police officer and a victims advocate. Still, she was so distraught and angry that she took a seven-month leave of absence from the station where, she writes, she got little sympathy.

Eventually her stalker slipped up, and she found evidence of his identity — Patrick Henry Kelly. There was a trial, widely covered by Twin Cities media, and Lucia was able to give her heartfelt statement in court of how she couldn’t eat or sleep and suffered panic attacks: “My whole sense of self is in question. It has left me feeling powerless.”

Kelly got five years of probation and was ordered to pay restitution. It was, Lucia believes, nothing more than “a slap on the wrist.” The man who wrote her vulgar messages was soon free to stalk a new victim, one of Lucia’s radio colleagues.

Although living in terror is the focal point of “What Doesn’t Kill Me…” Lucia also writes honestly about kicking a drug habit cold turkey and her history of self-harm by cutting. Writing in a snarky/funny style, she includes stories about her very nontraditional family, with two unhappy parents who let the kids raise themselves, as well as an anecdote about how an operating room staff had more trouble removing her belly button ring than doing the actual procedure, and how her dog ate the underside of her couch.

Lucia is now program adviser for Radio K, the University of Minnesota’s student-run radio station. For those not familiar with her musical tastes, she includes in her book the playlist for her last Current show on May 12, 2022. It begins with Keith Richards’ “Take It So Hard,” continues in the middle with T. Rex’s “Hot Love,” and ends with The Rolling Stones’ “It’s Only Rock ‘n’ Roll (But I Like It).”

“In the Evening, We’ll Dance”: by Anne-Marie Erickson (Holy Cow! Press, $18.95)

During Dick’s dementia, my sense of self-esteem seemed distorted, like a reflection in a funhouse mirror. I was thrown off-kilter by fear and bewilderment, as if I, too, were trapped in dementia’s warped mirror. — from “In the Evening, We’ll Dance”

(Courtesy of Holy Cow! Press)

Subtitled “A Memoir in Essays on Love & Dementia,” Erickson gives us an intelligent and thoughtful memoir of how she and her husband, Dick, found ways to live with his dementia after years of happy marriage, and her life after his death. She relates her story to language, philosophy, science of the brain, mythologies and Biblical passages. Her style is poetic, such as her lovely memory of “waltzing” with her husband as they swayed together in his hospice bed.

So many spouses are taking Erickson’s journey now, and her experiences and insight will help anyone who picks up her book.

Erickson, who lives in Grand Rapids, is a freelance writer and college composition instructor with degrees in American studies and English. She will be at Magers & Quinn, 3038 Hennepin Ave. S., Mpls., at 7 p.m. Wednesday in conversation with Patricia Hoolihan, author of “Hands and Hearts Together: Daily Meditations for Caregivers.”

“His Last Breath: A Soldier, His Wife, and the Man Who Died to Save Them”: by Michele Arnoldy (Westbow Press, $16.99)

I often collapsed into God’s presence. I would curl up in our bed, pulling the comforter over me and drawing on my only comforter, Jesus. For several minutes, sometimes hours, the man of sorrows cried with me, our tears combining into huge droplets as Jesus supernaturally comforted me in ways I don’t understand or can explain. — from “His Last Breath”

Michele Arnoldy (Courtesy of the author)

In this faith-based memoir, Michele Arnoldy writes of her and her husband’s struggles to save their marriage as they grew apart. Michelle felt she had married a man of faith but he had changed. Chris was a successful corporate executive when he voluntarily deployed to Afghanistan as a liaison between the U.S. Army and Afghan village leaders. When he returned the couple had to come to terms with his mental issues, including PTSD, depression and anxiety with Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder being the predominant diagnosis. Chris eventually killed himself, leaving Michele to grieve and turn to God to heal. As she writes, “Worship is a weapon to defeat fear.”

The author has spent 18 years helping the spiritual journeys of women as they aged. She is a certified life coach, speaker and leadership trainer.

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ANDREA BEATY: Discusses her new picture book, “Billie Jean Peet, Athlete,” latest in her Questioneers series. 6 p.m. Thursday, Red Balloon Bookshop, 891 Grand Ave., St. Paul.

NIDHI CHANANI: Introduces “Super Boba Cafe: Home Sea Home,” latest in her graphic novel series, in conversation with Molly Murakami. 6 p.m. Wednesday, Red Balloon Bookshop, 891 Grand Ave., St. Paul.

DAN CHAON: Presents “One of Us” in conversation with Antonia Angress. 7 p.m. Thursday, Magers & Quinn, 3038 Hennepin Ave. S., Mpls.

POWERS/DALGLISH: Minnesota authors AW Powers and Cass Dalglish host a meet-and-greet. Powers’ latest book is “Uncontrolled Variables,” 10th in his psychic Guardian Angels series. Dalglish’s is “Ring of Lions,” a mystery focused on the stone lion fountain in Spain’s Alhambra palace complex. Noon-2 p.m. Saturday, Once Upon a Crime, 604 W. 26th St., Mpls.

GAYLAXICON CONVENTION: Gaylaxicon, an international LGBTQIA+ and science fiction convention, presented by North Country Gaylaxicons, spotlights how the science fiction/fantasy genre has a long history of queer representation. With panel discussions, local author presentations and a comedy cabaret featuring local comedian Miss Shannon Paul. Friday-Oct. 5, Crowne Plaza Suites, 3 Appletree Square, Bloomington. Ticket information at gaylaxiconmn.org.

RENEE GILMORE: Minnesotan launches “Wayfinding,” her debut book about wanderlust that sent her to seven continents, and how her life was shaped by loss, betrayal and sexual violence, as well as mapping her route to healing, acceptance and hope. 6:30 p.m. Thursday, Inkwell Booksellers, 426 E Hennepin Ave., Mpls.

DAVID HAKENSEN: Minnesota author introduces “Her Place in the Woods: The Life of Helen Hoover,” the first complete biography of one of the state’s most beloved nature writers, who died in 1984. Hoover’s writings on life in the wilderness of the Gunflint Trail were published in popular magazines and several books, including three for children. He traces Hoover’s life from corporate work in Chicago to living in a remote homestead without electricity or running water. 7 p.m. Tuesday, Magers & Quinn, 3038 Hennepin Ave. S., Mpls.

Poet Terrance Hayes is the guest speaker at a program sponsored by Literary Witnesses and the Loft Literary Center Oct. 2, 2025, at Plymouth Congregational Church in Minneapolis. (Courtesy of the author)

TERRANCE HAYES: National Book Award-winning poet and MacArthur Fellow reads from “American Sonnets for My Past and Future Assassin,” and his latest collection, “So to Speak.” Hayes, author of seven books of poetry, is known for his work exploring popular culture, music, race, masculinity and language. Free. Presented by the Loft Literary Center and Literary Witnesses. 7 p.m. Thursday, Plymouth Congregational Church, 1900 Nicollet Ave., Mpls.

GREG HEWITT: Poet and professor of English at Carleton College discusses his debut novel, “No Names,” about the lives of members of a once-hot 1970s punk band that fell apart. 6 p.m. Tuesday, Next Chapter Booksellers, 38 S. Snelling Ave., St. Paul.

PHILIP/ERIN STEAD: Author/illustrator duo introduce their new picture book, “A Snow Day for Amos McGee.” 6 p.m. Tuesday, Red Balloon Bookshop, 891 Grand Ave., St. Paul.

MONA SUSAN POWER: Enrolled member of the Standing Rock Sioux Tribe, author of four works of fiction, including “A Council of Dolls,” discusses her work and her current writing project, a novel about hauntings. 6 p.m. Wednesday, Wescott Library, 1340 Wescott Road, Eagan.

SILVIA MORENO-GARCIA: Author of horror, fantasy and historical fiction gives a virtual discussion of her writing, including her latest, “The Bewitching.” 7 p.m. Wednesday, presented by Club Book. For registration, go to clubbook.org.

VOICES IN THE LIGHT: Writers from Flowers of Lake Phalen and Cracked Walnut read and invite other writers of all ages to read at an open mic in the opening event of the Mid-Autumn Festival of Dance, Song, Art, and fun for kids. 11 a.m. Saturday, China Friendship Garden at Phalen Park, 1624 Phalen Dr., St. Paul.

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Other voices: Congress has no good excuse to keep trading stocks

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In what’s become something of a ritual, members of Congress have lately been holding news conferences calling for stricter limits on their own stock trading. Americans love this idea, yet the bills have so far gone nowhere. Here’s hoping common sense may soon prevail.

Time and again, in recent years, members of both parties have executed trades that seemed to be awfully well timed. In early 2020, after some legislators had received classified briefings about the likely severity of COVID-19, a flurry of stock-buying ensued in industries that stood to profit from the pandemic. One congressman placed millions of dollars in undisclosed trades, including in medical and tech companies that had a stake in the virus response. More recently, at least one lawmaker seemed to have an uncanny sense that the president’s tariffs were about to be paused.

There’s also more overt corruption, such as when former Rep. Chris Collins tipped off his son that a drug made by a biotech company he was invested in had failed a crucial clinical trial. (Collins pleaded guilty to securities fraud in 2019.) The perception that lawmakers have an inside edge has even led to the creation of two exchange-traded funds that track their trading: NANC, named after Rep. Nancy Pelosi, and KRUZ, after Sen. Ted Cruz.

Even if their investing is unconnected to any privileged insights, as they all claim, it’s a poor look for legislators to be buying and selling stock in companies over which they hold sway. In recent years, analyses have found that 97 lawmakers had bought or sold stock in companies that intersected with their committee work, including more than a dozen members who oversaw the Pentagon and had financial ties to defense contractors. It’s little wonder that 80% of Americans see congressional corruption as a significant problem.

Efforts by lawmakers to regulate themselves have not been notably successful. In 2012, they passed the Stock Act to require that trades worth more than $1,000 be disclosed within 45 days. Yet members have routinely failed to comply with the requirement, which carries a whopping penalty of $200, and no legislator has ever been prosecuted for insider trading under the law.

Although more than 60 measures to limit or ban stock trading have been proposed since 2017, the problem has only gotten worse: 61% of the current Congress’ freshman class owns individual stocks, compared to 46% of the total class in the last session.

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There’s no reasonable defense for this. After all, owning low-cost index funds should under normal circumstances be far preferable to dabbling in individual stocks (88% of professional fund managers underperformed the S&P 500 index over the past 15 years). And restrictions on personal trading are hardly unusual in industries — such as finance and the news media — that are keen to prevent conflicts of interest and preserve customers’ trust.

With almost two dozen bills proposed this year alone, a clear risk is that lawmakers can’t agree on one approach. They could do worse than to endorse a bipartisan House proposal called the Restore Trust in Congress Act. It imposes a simple ban on individual stock trading by legislators and their immediate families, without loopholes for blind trusts or other complicated exceptions. It also sets penalties — all profits plus 10% of the investment value — that should provide a reasonable deterrent. It’s a sensible way to restore some public trust in the institution.

A seat in Congress comes with many privileges. Day trading shouldn’t be one of them.

— The Bloomberg Opinion Editorial Board

County Un-Fair: Inside the long-running disputes that derailed the Ramsey County Fair

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Over the past few months, 85 county fair gates have opened across Minnesota’s 87 counties.

The only exceptions?

Sparsely populated Cook County on the North Shore, whose fair faded away more than a decade ago, and Ramsey County.

This county — home to the biggest State Fair in the nation by daily attendance — has not held its own county fair since 2019, largely due to a long-running dispute with Ramsey County leaders over some $30,000 in land-use fees. Now, a sixth summer has come and gone without a Ramsey County Fair, which had previously been operating for more than a century.

“The term ‘resurrect’ has been bandied around, but I don’t know if resurrect is the right word because we’re still here, ready to go,” Ramsey County Fair board president Ron Suiter said. “We’re just asking the county for a chance to do it. But I don’t know if they even understand or care what we’re trying to do.”

So what actually happened to the Ramsey County Fair — and how might we get it back on track?

The first Ramsey County Fair was held in 1913 in White Bear Lake, on the grounds of what’s now Central Middle School but at the time was land owned by the Ramsey County Agricultural Society, the nonprofit that operates the fair. The Hippodrome Ice Arena, still in use, was constructed for the fair in 1926.

In response to school district expansion plans in the 1950s, fair officials accepted an offer from Ramsey County to move to the Ramsey County Poor Farm Barn in Maplewood and 20 acres of green space around it. Although the fair now only has access to less than 3 acres, that’s been the site of the Ramsey County Fair since 1954.

At the time, the understanding among decision-makers from both the county and the agricultural society was that this agreement was to be in perpetuity, according to Joe Fox, 93, who has served on Ramsey County Fair board since 1966. Indeed, several brief reports in both the St. Paul Dispatch and Pioneer Press from 1955 note that the money generated from the White Bear Lake land sale was given to Ramsey County in exchange for use of the Maplewood site as a “permanent” fairgrounds.

But here’s the problem: That agreement was apparently never written down anywhere. No contracts were ever drawn up; no leases signed. From land use to insurance coverage to trash pickup to security, since 1954, the fair has subsisted on a vast network of handshakes, verbal agreements, mutual favors and institutional memory. And for more than six decades, that was enough.

Until it wasn’t.

Ron Suiter, president of the Ramsey County Agricultural Society, talks about why the Ramsey County Fair was canceled for a sixth year, at the fair’s office at the Ramsey County Parks and Recreation complex in Maplewood on Wednesday, May 21, 2025. (John Autey / Pioneer Press)

‘There needs to be an agreement’

In 2019, while preparing for the ill-fated 2020 Fair, Suiter, who is also president of the Ramsey County Agricultural Society, received a series of notices from various county agencies that took him by surprise.

First and foremost, county officials had become uncomfortable with the reliance on handshake agreements and wanted to formalize the financial relationship between the fair and the county.

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Going forward, said Ramsey County property manager Jean Krueger, the fair would need to begin paying the county to lease the land, to cover operating costs like utilities and to reimburse Ramsey County Parks and Recreation for the time its staff spent on the clock on fair tasks like set-up and trash collecting.

Based on previous years’ needs, the county estimated the fair would owe about $25,000 per year. Another $8,000 or so was later added as a rental fee for the fair to allow visitors to park in the Aldrich Arena lot. The county told Suiter the money would be due upfront, before the fair, he said.

Additionally, as part of this reevaluation, the county also informed the agricultural society that it was revoking its willingness to indemnify the fair and that the organization would need to purchase its own liability insurance. Previously, the county had shielded the agricultural society against any legal action for fair activities, but county officials came to determine they could no longer shoulder this taxpayer expense on behalf of an outside organization, Krueger said.

“It was a process that ended with us saying, the fair could be held on the grounds, but there needs to be an agreement that they need to, in essence, incur the same sort of fees as anyone else that rents the property,” Krueger said. “There are many organizations that would love to have free use of county property. We just can’t do that for one group and not others.”

Around the same time, the agricultural society also learned it would no longer be able to use any of the interior building space on the fairgrounds for public fair purposes.

Previously, Parks and Rec had cleared out parts of its administration building and an equipment storage barn, both of which are located on the fairgrounds site, for the fair to host exhibitions and vendors, but the department no longer plans to do so, Krueger said.

And the large two-level historic barn, which also houses year-round offices for the agricultural society and University of Minnesota Extension and is a centerpiece of the fairgrounds, is not suitable to be open to the public, Krueger said. Large events might overwhelm its antiquated plumbing system. And the second floor — which lacks sufficient fire protection and is not accessible for people with disabilities following the removal of a structurally unsound ramp in 2020 — is off-limits to anyone, including both the barn’s office tenants and outside events like Fright Farm Haunted House, which had used the space for free until closing when the building changes were made in 2020.

Any one of these updates alone would require fair leaders to completely rethink portions of the event, Suiter said. But for the changes to all come at once, he said, felt like a deluge the fair could not withstand.

(Although COVID-19 was ultimately the prevailing reason for the 2020 and 2021 fairs being called off, these obstacles predate the pandemic and likely would’ve forced the cancellation of those years’ fairs regardless, as has been the case in 2022, ’23, ’24 and ’25, Suiter said.)

“They just keep squeezing us,” fair board vice president Dennis Larson said. “They make us promises, and then the next generation forgets that they’d made the promise (and says), ‘Oh, we can’t do that, it’s too much work.’ … There’s no question we needed to be more formal than we had been, but then they went way too far.”

Joe Fox, Ramsey County Agricultural Society board member, explains the Ramsey County Fair layout at the Ramsey County Parks and Recreation complex in Maplewood on Wednesday, May 21, 2025. (John Autey / Pioneer Press)

‘This is the exception’

Let’s step back a second. To an outsider, it may seem unexpected that a stalwart organization like the Ramsey County Fair didn’t have formalized financial and land-use contracts with the county.

But to other county fair leaders around the state, including Don Merkens, president of the Minnesota Federation of County Fairs, it’s not surprising that a fair like Ramsey County’s would’ve subsisted for decades on informal handshakes and personal goodwill.

“That’s very common in the county fair business,” he said.

County fair budgets are notoriously tight, and many agricultural societies typically don’t have much money in the bank year-round, several fair leaders around the state all said.

Frequently, the money generated from a fair goes directly toward paying back the operational bills from that very fair. Even during some of the Ramsey County Fair’s heyday years, breaking even once the gates closed felt like a victory, said Joe Fox, the nearly 60-year fair board veteran. So some degree of generous trust is necessary, he said, as is perhaps a willingness to flex the norms of typical business relationships for the good of the fair.

What is not common, though, is for a county to charge its own county fair to operate, said Merkens, who also oversees the Norman County Fair in northwest Minnesota. Many counties see it as within their best interest to support an accessible civic festival that elevates agriculture and youth programming like 4-H, even in urban settings, he said, and he’s surprised by Ramsey County’s stance.

“I do not know of one other county (fair) in Minnesota that has to pay to use county or city grounds,” Merkens said. “This is the exception right here in Ramsey County.”

To be clear, not all county fairs operate on public land. Within the metro, fairgrounds for the Dakota, Washington and Scott county fairs are each owned by their respective county agricultural societies, representatives confirmed. The Hennepin County Fair takes place at Corcoran Lions Park, and the county agricultural society leases it (for free) directly from the Corcoran Lions club, fair board president Mike Rouillard said.

Merkens is right, though: The county fairs that do take place on public land, at least around the Twin Cities area, do so without having to pay rent. Take the Wright County Fair, which updated its agreement with the county to a new 20-year lease in 2018. In lieu of monetary rent, the county continues to offer the land in exchange for “the goodwill and services provided by the Ag Society.”

Similarly, the Anoka County Fair takes place on county-owned lands, said Anoka County Fair board president Michael Ahlers, though the county agricultural society does own the fairgrounds’ parking lot. The organization does have a written land-use agreement with the county, but it’s more or less a formality.

“One of our biggest assets is the relationship that we have with the county,” he said. “It’s not that we pay this much and get that much. We’re branding Anoka County, and they get to reap the benefits. If we have a great fair, that’s Anoka County.”

The heart of the issue here, Larson said, is that Ramsey County is misguided in seeking to avoid differential treatment for the fair versus other outside organizations, because a county fair fundamentally is different from other outside organizations, legally speaking.

In Minnesota, county agricultural societies are governed by Chapter 38 of the Minnesota State Statutes, which grants them unique powers, including certain taxation benefits, exemption from zoning ordinances and the power of eminent domain, by which they technically can forcibly requisition private lands to be used for fair purposes as long as they compensate the former owners. This makes county fairs almost like quasi-governmental organizations, said Ahlers of the Anoka County Fair, even though some of the privileges aren’t exactly practicable.

“There’s way more power that we are given in the state statute than we could ever enforce,” he said. “Even though we have eminent domain power, there’s no way we could have enough money to go through the legal battles to actually do it.”

Still, Ramsey County Fair officials say: The point stands.

“It’s not as if we’re just anybody from up or down the street,” Fox, the longtime Ramsey County Agricultural Society board member, said.

Joe Fox, Ramsey County Agricultural Society board member, looks at photos from when he won the milking contest at the Ramsey County Fair at the Ramsey County Parks and Recreation complex in Maplewood on Wednesday, May 21, 2025. (John Autey / Pioneer Press)

‘Re-grounding us in what our goals are’

So now, the $33,000 question: Will the Ramsey County Fair ever happen again?

For Suiter and the other board members of the Ramsey County Agricultural Society, paying the county an upfront fee for land use and other services is a non-starter. Suiter said he tried requesting that the county waive the fee temporarily, maybe for a year or two, to give fair organizers a chance to rebuild, modernize and develop long-term systems to bring in enough money to cover the annual fee in the future. This proposal has gone unanswered, he said.

In separate interviews, Suiter and Krueger each alleged that the other’s side had failed to respond to negotiations over the payment.

Suiter claimed the county was unable to specifically itemize the various charges that summed to $25,000 — apart from the additional $8,000 for parking — and that the figure had been determined arbitrarily, both allegations that Krueger disputed.

Besides the land-rental fee, the remainder of that amount is just an estimate of county services and billable staff time, Krueger said. If the fair were to choose to provide its own electricity and trash maintenance and security, then the county would have no need to charge for those services, she said.

“Historically,” she said, “the county has picked up all of those costs. But the operating costs are up to them based on how they would want to structure and provide for the fair.”

This was not the message Suiter and Larson felt they had received from the county.

“We were willing to pay for hard costs,” Larson said. “If you want to meter the electricity, we’ll pay for it. The trash. We’ll pay for security. No matter what hoop we jumped through, they came up with another one. And they couldn’t come up with any more, so they came up with the $25,000, and that was the dealbreaker.”

And then there’s the barn.

A dated and faded sign for the Ramsey County Fair at the Ramsey County Parks and Recreation complex in Maplewood on Wednesday, May 21, 2025. (John Autey / Pioneer Press)

Over the years, Larson said, the agricultural society has sunk its own funds into upgrading the barn to be suitable for county fair exhibitions. Although leaders recognize that those improvements to a county-owned building did indeed become county property, they view it as a snub for the county to have removed the second-floor access ramp without investing in replacing it or otherwise working to bring the building back into compliance with safety codes for public use.

The county has limited resources and other needs took priority, Krueger said.

“We saw no reason for county purposes to put in any sort of new ramp on the outside,” Krueger said. “(Office space) is the only use of that building that we have. For that use, there’s no need to upgrade the upper level or do any significant improvements on the first floor. We maintain that building, we’ve updated the systems to provide the office space on the first floor, but we have other buildings that are critical to the county’s provision of services to our residents.”

However, Suiter is hopeful that the Ramsey County Fair has found a new hero in County Commissioner Kelly Miller, who assumed office in January and whose district includes the Maplewood Fairgrounds.

Suiter and Miller met earlier this year about the challenges facing the Ramsey County Fair, and in separate interviews, each said the meeting was constructive. Miller has also actively sought meetings with other county officials to understand the county’s perspective, she said.

“I think a good place to start is just restarting this conversation and just re-grounding everybody, both at the county and at the agricultural society,” she said. “Because the county is in support of the fair. We are in support of having a county fair. So I think it’s just re-grounding us in what our goals are for the fair.”

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Some county decisions regarding the fair — especially as relating to building usage — are unlikely to be negotiable at this time, she said, and she stands behind the county’s decision to approach the Fair with the same treatment any other external organization would receive. But she agrees with Krueger that the Ramsey County Agricultural Society’s potential $25,000 bill to the county could be lowered if the society were to assume some operating costs, and she was pleased to hear Suiter and the fair board were open to the idea.

“I’m not 100 percent sure why there was that communication breakdown in the past, but I can say, going forward, I’m hopeful to be a helpful piece in bringing that communication together and moving things along,” Miller said.

If we do ultimately see a return of the Ramsey County Fair in 2026, it’ll look different.

If the fair stays on the Maplewood Fairgrounds, it’ll probably be smaller than before, and fully outdoors. A gate admission charge to what has historically been a free fair is not ideal, but not out of the question. Later this month, Suiter has a meeting planned with the owners of Maplewood Mall to discuss whether the fair could even take place there instead.

And either way, organizers will need to rearticulate the importance of a county fair in both fulfilling its mission of agricultural education and representing the urban diversity of Ramsey County. A county fair is not a street festival, Suiter said; it’s something unique.

“In many ways, we are starting over,” Suiter said. “We’ve got to reinvent ourselves in a different way.”